25 Things My Husband Learned as a Kdrama Fan

Things my husband learned as a Kdrama fan
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Have you joined the Korean Drama (Kdrama) bandwagon? We started watching these Korean drama series in February because my husband clicked on Crash Landing On You, thinking it was an action airplane crash series haha! Boy was he wrong! But he became an instant Kdrama fan! And he’s been hooked ever since.

So now I am posting this, his very own article on what he learned as a Kdrama fan. I am giving him the spotlight as he shares his very wise but funny observations and realizations from all the Korean dramas we have watched.

This is an addendum to celebrate Father’s Day following my post on “How to Celebrate Father’s Day Quarantine Style,” as my gift to my Hubby. I hope you enjoy learning from my Husband, the Korean Drama addict!

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The Bored Husband on Lockdown

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The COVID19 pandemic and ensuing lockdown of Metro Manila resulted in a lot of office workers like me staying home for almost two months, dividing my time between WFH duties and bonding with my son.  

To pass the time, I’d try to read some books, but the boredom was simply too much. Ok, fine, it was hell. I needed something to stimulate the brain…even if it was from what was derisively called the idiot box (that’s television for you millennials). 

I decided to expand my not-too-broad menu of Netflix selection of mostly action films or series and see if I can last through an entire season of a Kdrama series.  My spouse has been nagging me to watch some Kdramas with her for some time and this was met mostly with adamant, if not robust refusal…rinse, repeat.

The Birth of the Kdrama Fan

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Photos in Collage: Wallpaper Cave

As luck would have it, yes.  I watched the made-for-Netflix Korean drama Crash Landing On You….And, after a slow start…I was floored.  

I didn’t know that kdramas could be this good!  The feature length episodes, lush scenes, great acting (which sometimes borders on cheesy), great comedy (and I don’t even speak Hangul) which uses a lot of Asian humor!  

I had to watch it over and over, listen to the excellent OST on my Spotify going to and from work. 

In the end, my wife was now saying, “I have a convert!”, smiling proudly (or smugly, I couldn’t tell). 

The Observations About Korean Dramas

After watching a couple of other titles like Descendants of the Sun, What’s Wrong With Secretary Kim?, My Love From the Star, Legend of the Blue Sea, Fight for My Way, Touch Your Heart, and recently Goblin, I’ve come to realize that there are some elements of Kdramas which are recurring or repeating, notwithstanding the story line. 

These elements always come to highlight a realization by the leading man or leading lady, to bridge plots or scenes with the supporting cast, or simply to have a shameless, if not subtle, product placement.  

So, without further ado, here they are!

The Things I Learned As A Kdrama Fan

1. The Lead Characters MUST INITIALLY HATE Each Other

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Dunno if this is a thing even with Pinoy teleseryes (Filipino TV drama series) but I’ve yet to see a situation where there was love at first sight between the leading man and leading lady/love interest. 

This plot line typically highlights the clumsy or awkward situations the leads find themselves in.  I guess it is supposed to make them more adorable and human as compared to characters that behave or act perfectly.

2. The Ducklings, Ajummas and Ajusshi’s

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Photo: IMDB
Crash Landing On You, Korean Drama, Kdrama fan
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Essentially the supporting cast, who are the BFFs, moms/stepmoms, dads/stepdads, aunts, uncles BFFs, classmates, co-workers, even platoon members (in the case of CLOY and DOTS) are there to provide added comic relief, if not a shoulder to cry on for the leads.

*CLOY (Crash Landing on You) and DOTS (Descendants of the Sun)

3. The Tragic Backstory

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Photo: Dramabeans

This is a thing, apparently, for either lead character.  It is imperative that something tragic happened when they were young…or during their past life in the Joeson Era.  

4. The Crying Talent

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Photo: Nylamrehs

Oh, and honorable mention is the single teardrop rolling down from one eye…now that is a skill every Kdrama actor should master. 

5. Soju

A definite non-negotiable, because drinking Soju is the only way you can get your lead characters to confess their feelings for each other. 

But heck, I was so intrigued that Soju is now one of the beverages I crave.

6. The Piggyback Ride Home

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Photo: Soompi

When our lead female character gets completely smashed from the soju, she is given a respectful piggy ride back home by her love interest. 

Sometimes, she is even tucked in..aww…

7. Beer and Chicken

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Photo: HelloKpop

Beer and Chicken is practically a religious dining experience as Koreans. Young and old alike love good old fashioned fried chicken.  Apparently, it goes very well with their favorite lager or beer.

While I’m not an avid beer drinker myself, I certainly see how Kdramas incorporate beer and chicken a lot in their scenes and they look really tasty.

8. Put Your Head on My Shoulder

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Ahh…when the female lead becomes so sleepy at the bus, the most convenient pillow is the male leads shoulder. Swoon ensues, especially if it’s Hyun Bin’s shoulder…

9. “Do you want to come up for some instant RAMYEON?”

Ok, so someone told me that this is a shameless pick-up line where you basically ask for sex.  

Still, I’m up for spicy ramyun. It’s tasty.

10. Subway Sandwiches, Maxim Instant Coffee and BBQ Chicken

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Korean dramas Maxim coffee and BBQ Chicken, Kdrama fan
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These are all common product placements because these are the places where the lead characters fulfill their hunger pangs. 

For Goblin, when the guardian Gong Yoo gives you a sandwich, it is usually a sign of good fortune to come.

11. Facial Care is Not Only for Women

Korean drama Descendants of the Sun Sheet Mask, Kdrama fan
Photo: Beautytap

There are a lot of scenes with men using facial masks… Sometimes more than the female characters.

12. The Joeson or Goreyo Era

Korean drama Joseon era, Kdrama fan
Photo: Soompi

Whether it’s watching Kingdom, Legend of the Blue Sea or even Goblin, apparently this period of Korean history has a lot of rich material that writers can draw from.  

I’m trying to find out if I am actually the reincarnation of a Korean man from the Joeson Era so I can wear those tall hats.

13. The Cars

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Photo: Soompi

Oh wow.  Where do I begin? CLOY had Jaguars and Range Rovers. My Love From the Star and DOTS featured Mercedes, others featured Lexus or American muscle cars.  

I can’t find a series where the characters own an ordinary Toyota or Hyundai.  Somehow, I get the feeling that it’s also product placement.

14. The “Bling-bling” for Men

Well….it’s in a word…fantastic.  CLOY featured Hyun Bin sporting a Chopard sports watch, while Goblin had a character using a Tag Heuer Monaco.  

The last series I watched, Memories of Alhambra, had Hyun Bin sporting a different brand….Breitling.  “Watch” porn! 

15. The Walkaway Grab

Korean drama Touch Your Heart Arm Grab, Kdrama fan
Photo: Dramabeans

Seriously, men from the West can learn a thing or two from Koreans.  

When your love interest suddenly gets up, turns around and walks away….Grab her by the arm for an instant hug… Or kiss!

16. The Catch

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There is the inevitable, awkward slip of the leading lady resulting in a fall… Where the leading man ALWAYS CATCHES her with his arms or his body… Only for their eyes to meet, and instant tension! 

But wait, how does the leading man always time his catch so well?

17. The First Snow

Is. Seriously. Big.  

According to the Kdrama leads themselves, it is usually the time when you can confess your feelings to your first love and you are given a license to kiss them.

18. The Umbrella

Korean drama Legend of the Blue Sea umbrella scene, Kdrama fan
Photo: Castko

Note to self… In order to avoid confusion and misinterpretation of your intentions, DO NOT OPEN an umbrella over someone you have no romantic feelings for.

19. The Rain

Pretty common for local teleseryes as well.  Rain can either make things more romantic or more miserable for the lead characters in the scene.

20. “The <insert object here> of our memories” 

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It could be shoes, a ukulele, a mug shaped like a mouse, or even a piece of a jigsaw puzzle.  

If you remember your love interest because of it, it becomes something that focuses the lead character’s feelings for his/her love interest.

21. Arranged Marriages

Korean drama Princess and I arranged marriage, Kdrama fan
Photo: Soompi

If you are a conglomerate heir, expect to have your entire life planned out for you down to the shoes and your manner of saying anneyonhaeseyo! Hahaha!

That goes for whomever your rich parents want you to marry.  Usually the scion or unica hija of another chaebol or conglomerate.

22. Stroking a Girl’s Hair (or Tying it up in a Ponytail) 

Korean drama hair stroking and ponytail scene, Kdrama fan
Photos in Collage: Dramabeans, Preview

Is an accepted expression of …FONDNESS….or extreme crushes…haha!!!

23. The Wardrobe

Korean drama Wardrobe Girl, Kdrama fan
Photo: Yes Style
Korean drama Wardrobe Men, Kdrama fan
Photo: Soompi

Oh the wardrobe! It’s like the characters walk right out of the pages of a fashion mag…well, most of the time.  

The only time I think they didn’t do that was for DOTS and The Inheritors where the leads wore either military uniforms or school outfits.

24. Say SARANGHAE… Like You Mean It!

Nuff said.  Hey, this word cures everything! Past fights, grudges, insane jealousy…you name it…saranghae it!!!

25. In the end….The Stare….Freeze!

Korean drama stare and freeze scene, Kdrama fan

And just like the end of each episode, you know you’ve come to the end of one if the lead characters stand face to face, with long meaningful looks.

It’s when my wife starts stomping her feet because of the cliffhanger that goes with it. 

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The Last Word from the Korean Drama Fan

That’s it! A quick, concise but comprehensive list of South Korean Kdrama elements which I have compiled for the past 2 months of binge watching on Netflix. 

Let me know if there is something I missed!

The Last Word from the Kdrama Addict’s Wife

And that, folks, was Hubby being a Kdrama fan! He really is a Korean drama convert as he noticed all these things he learned from watching them each night.

Did you like Hubby’s list? Were you able to relate to any of them? Did you observe the same things?

Do leave your COMMENTS below and let Hubby know if you enjoyed the things he learned as a Kdrama fan!


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2 thoughts on “25 Things My Husband Learned as a Kdrama Fan”

  1. I love this! I totally agree and can relate to #’s 1-25. This is a good article for Kdrama fans! Congrats and Happy Father’s day to Hubby! ☺️

    If I may add, Kdramas are also fond of historical fantasies showing two different worlds. They show respect and importance to their history, their kings, heirs, etc. (Napansin ko din to) 😄

  2. Great observation! Maybe be can make this a series since new kdramas are being featured on netflix. Maybe next could be his observations on korean movies.

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